This is a true life story. Names of the true characters have been changed.
I got married to my sweetheart Andrea Asor Awen in Dec 2011 traditional wedding in Anyingba, Kogi state. I married the daughter of the famous “Alhaji Kampala”. And then did the white wedding in February 18, 2012 in Makurdi, Benue State.
After the wedding, we were so excited and looked forward to a blissful marriage. All our Amens were in place, especially to prayers for children. After about 6 months into the marriage my wife didn’t take in even though I was consistently performing my conjugal duties on a daily basis (no exaggeration) except when we had the monthly visitor which was very much not welcomed as at the time. In fact, it always brought tears.
Then the Hospital escapades began, I will prefer not to mention the names of the doctors and hospitals because I didn’t ask their permission to mention them in this post and it might portray them in a light that might be in my opinion unacceptable to them. But I sure appreciate them for every thing they are doing and medicine is a blessing, God uses Medicine also to help us.
I first of all visited a lab and did a sperm count and when the test came out, hmmm. The report said there was no sperm to even count. The news came so hard, “Oga you no get any sperm count.”
This meant I was INFERTILE not IMPOTENT (know the difference). Boy, did I cry..I cried oooooooooooooooooooooooo😭😭😭😭😭. After all, Jesus too cried and it wasn’t tears of joy. My wife of life was there for me. Thank God for this kind of wife, she was there petting me as I was sulking.
We now went to the hospital, and did more tests and results were the same. I started treatment alongside prayers, drugs became my steady companion and my curiosity always took me to the hospital for sperm count. I was always disappointed. I even went to this herbal guys one Chief Ba…. Need I to mention? Desperation can make you do anything. The man gave me those herbs that were bitter and I couldn’t stand it and that was the straw that broke the camel’s back.
During this ordeal, the enemy suggested to me that God was punishing me for all the sins I ever committed…mtcheeeeew😏. I didn’t know what I know now, I prayed and fasted, my wife did dry fasting two times at MFM and a little glimmer of hope.
The sperm counted but not up to one thousand (Normal semen contains 40 million to 300 million sperm per milliliter. A low sperm count is considered to be anything between 10 and 20 million sperm per milliliter. Twenty million sperm per milliliter may be adequate for pregnancy if the sperm are healthy). But it was really poor. One day, I told God to just kill me nah.
At some point after another 2 years, My doctor suggested IUI (Intrauterine insemination) Intrauterine insemination (IUI) — a type of artificial insemination — is a procedure for treating infertility.
Sperm that have been washed and concentrated are placed directly in your uterus around the time your ovary releases one or more eggs to be fertilized.…which I paid for heavily and it didn’t work. And he also suggested IVF which I declined and of course I didn’t have money for.
At this point we tried several other doctors, one referral to another, and let me add, my wife too was running all kinds of tests and scans o. And continuous intake of drugs.
Finally, I got tired, we had heard tens of stories of causes of infertility and most were tied to witchcraft, fathers house, mothers house, wedding gifts etc.
I decided if my seed (sperm) will not work, I am going to use another Man’s seed (sperm). In fact, I was told by one of those doctors resident in Abuja that I can use another man’s seed (sperm), I can be given one with the kind of characteristics for a child I like.
It occurred to me that I knew a man’s that is just perfect. I knew a man’s own that matched all the characteristics I desired. He is fine, good blood group, good health, rich and strong. His name is Jesus.
THE WORD SEED AS USED IN THE BIBLE IS THE ROOT WORD FOR SPERMA, WHICH IS THE WORD SPERM COMES FROM.
I studied all the cases of child delays in the bible, Mary the mother of Jesus, Hannah, Abraham, Samson’s mum, Isaac and even Elizabeth etc. I paid more attention to Abraham’s because it had more evidence. All their conception came from the Sperma of God’s word.
After about 4 years and some months, in June of 2015, to cut long story short, I was reading the bible and by the Spirit stopped on Mathew 18:19 and it felt like my room lit up with a bright light, the entrance of thy word giveth light.
The scripture says in Matthew 18:19 Again I say unto you, That if two of you shall agree on earth as touching any thing that they shall ask, it shall be done for them of my Father which is in heaven.
Brothers and sisters, the moment this revelation hit me, I called my wife from the shop just in front of our house into the parlour that day, she sat down and said how far. I read the scripture to her and I said this is the key to our conception. I said to her excitedly, this verse will give us our Children.
I said how many of us are here? She replied just Two of us.
I said we meet the first requirement (IF TWO SHALL).
Second requirement, Shall agree on earth… I said babe where are we? She said on earth.
Thirdly, I said let us agree that this month we will conceive and nine months later you will deliver our firstborn son. We held hands and I declared Lord you cannot lie thank you because we asked for a child and we have agreed according to your word that it is done ALREADY (Past tense).
And from that day, I never did any sperm count again or even take any drug, Heaven bears me witness. Because I used the seed of God’s word and we believed it is more than potent. The count is appropriate. We just maintained Thanksgiving for what we have already.
Dear reader, 9 months later exactly, our firstborn son came. (Agreement in June, she missed her period in July, Noah Asor Aver Awen came march 18th 2016 do the maths).
Five months later my wife conceived again I didn’t know the agreement continued because I was just playing my regular computer game😜 with no pregnancy in mind. My daughter Shine Mchivirter Awen came.
And on January 10th 2022 my 3rd born son Ethan Terseer Kashimana Asor Aver Awen Ahough Taku was born. How do I deactivate this seed?
Ladies and gentlemen, there is nothing the seed (sperma) of Gods word cannot impregnate. Any dried situation, barren condition, dead and forgotten problem, demonic sickness, stopping satan in his tracks, pls apply the seed (sperma) of God’s word and believe.
On the 18th of February 2022 exactly, my wife and I just clocked 10 years of marital bliss.
I say this boldly without mincing words MARRIAGE SWEET ABEG.
Hebrews 4:12 (AMP)
For the Word that God speaks is alive and full of power [making it active, operative, energizing, and effective]; it is sharper than any two-edged sword, penetrating to the dividing line of the breath of life (soul) and [the immortal] spirit, and of joints and marrow [of the deepest parts of our nature], exposing and sifting and analyzing and judging the very thoughts and purposes of the heart.
Happy 10 years wedding anniversary to us.
NAIRALAND
