At my father’s funeral yesterday, Ebenezer Obey sang and called out all the names of my dad’s children but didn’t mention my name. I will never forget this. I may not be part of the family anymore but I was still his daughter. I used to be the breadwinner of the family. It is in pain I am now starting my life all over again at 61 years after it was ruined by my dad who promised me a NAFDAC job when I sold everything I had and left America in 2006. I have told my son to cremate me and spread my ashes in the Atlantic Ocean when I d!e. I left Nigeria in January 2023 and I will never come back again’ -Kemi Olunloyo
