The family list handed over to a potential groom for traditional list in Cross River State has sparked reactions online.
Posted on the net by a Cross River publication, the includes such items as “Removing of Shame” which costs N100,000, as well as the demand for a “Farming Fee” of N50,000.
Netizens have been reacting, poking fun and expressing outrage at the unconventional demands.



SatDa9ja Guru
I believe it is a punishment for getting her pregnant or had kids with her before marriage. I paid a fine like that.
Anonymous
Make I start now start to save my removal of shame money. It’s looking like I have to pay it.
Insidelife22
Girls wey dey find husband plenty o,but once they manage see one,the family dey wan collect everything wey dey the man pocket,if you check am well,the ekpu don do gbim.
Anonymous
The list is not much. If the lady is prgenant or has given birth, the man has to pay for ” removing of shame” to the family. That is the tradition.
Anonymous
Its quite expensive to get married these days …….. but it’s so unfortunate that the man spends so much money in getting married to a non-virgin and perhaps a retired prostitute……..
Anonymous
In this era list still dey like this. The girl go tey for market oh.
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