Dear Men, please learn to control your emotions and not take the law into your own hands..
If you Catch your Wife on your Matrimonial bed with another man that man has committed NO CRIME.
Yes.
Even if you saw them in action.
Shocking……..
Adultery under most Nigerian criminal laws is not a criminal offence.
What does it mean?
It means:
š„¢ You cannot beat him.
š„¢ You cannot detain him.
š„¢ You cannot call police to arrest him.
š„¢ You cannot charge him to court for āsleeping with your wife.ā
What you witnessed is only a ground to divorce, your wife not a crime.
So greet the man and let him go.
Painful, but that is the law.
However, if this same thing happens in some Northern states operating under Sharia-based criminal laws, the story changes.
There, adultery (zina) is treated as a criminal offence.
Meaning:
š„¢ The man can be arrested.
š„¢ The act can lead to prosecution.
š„¢ It is no longer just a āfamily matter.ā
Same country.
Different legal consequences.
This is why you must understand the law in your location before reacting in anger.
One wrong move assault, violence, or murder and you will move from āhurt husbandā to ācriminal defendant.ā
Emotion is temporary.
Criminal record is permanent.




